{"id":705,"date":"2012-07-18T10:36:54","date_gmt":"2012-07-18T14:36:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/web.colby.edu\/csc-lowcoburn\/?page_id=705"},"modified":"2022-01-29T18:19:45","modified_gmt":"2022-01-29T23:19:45","slug":"transcription-low-to-coburn-9121890","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/web.colby.edu\/csc-home\/transcription-low-to-coburn-9121890\/","title":{"rendered":"Transcription of letter from Mary Low to Louise Coburn, 9\/12\/1890"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[<em>Written in margin<\/em>: Don&#8217;t have Sophia telegraph unless she will sign.]<\/p>\n<p>Waterville, Sept. 12. \u201990.<\/p>\n<p>Dear Miss Coburn,<br \/>\nYour note written from<br \/>\nBrunswick was not received till last<br \/>\nevening at the same time with the one<br \/>\nwritten from your home. Had I known that<br \/>\nyou were to go through W-, I should cer-<br \/>\ntainly have met you at the depot.<\/p>\n<p>The present \u201cstatus\u201d is this. We have<br \/>\n19 names, Miss White, Miss Leland and<br \/>\nMiss Winslow in addition to those of whom<br \/>\nyou knew before.<\/p>\n<p>Miss Leland writes a \u201csplendid\u201d letter<br \/>\nand says Miss Brown will write soon. I<br \/>\nimmediately wrote to Miss Leland asking<br \/>\nher to hasten Miss Brown\u2019s decision. We<br \/>\nmust hear from her soon.<\/p>\n<p>Miss Brown and Miss Merrill [in Col.?]<br \/>\nwe haven\u2019t heard from yet. If we don\u2019t<\/p>\n<p>hear by Sat. eve, I propose to send another<br \/>\nletter Sat evening mail asking them, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">if they<br \/>\nwill sign<\/span>, to <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">telegraph<\/span> us on receipt of letter.<\/p>\n<p>We will pay for telegram. I think it won\u2019t<br \/>\ncost more than $2.00 at most, and as we<br \/>\nare to get two signatures by so doing, I think<br \/>\nwe\u2019d better do so. In that event we could<br \/>\nhear from them by next <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Thursday<\/span>. Hattie Joy,<br \/>\nI think we shall have to give up. She probably<br \/>\ndoesn\u2019t know anything about the discussion and<br \/>\ncannot, therefore, have much interest. She may,<br \/>\nhowever, come in at the last moment.<\/p>\n<p>Hattie and I called on Mrs. Hanson but she<br \/>\nsaid that, although she was <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">perfectly in sym-<br \/>\npathy<\/span> with what we are doing, yet she thought<br \/>\nthat it would do no good for her to write to<br \/>\nSophia. Sophia has no interest in college mat-<br \/>\nters at all and the subject is a very painful<br \/>\none to her, on account of the experience that she<br \/>\nhas passed through. Mrs. H- thought she would<br \/>\nanswer the letter which you wrote her.<br \/>\nWouldn\u2019t it be a good plan for you to write<\/p>\n<p>again? If you should send a letter tomorrow<br \/>\nmorning, she would get it by Tuesday, I think.<br \/>\nPerhaps you\u2019d better ask her to telegraph. We<br \/>\ncould afford to pay for a telegram, if it were<br \/>\na <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">favorable<\/span> one. Perhaps she would sign out<br \/>\nof regard to you if for no other reason. The<br \/>\nHansons are all strongly in favor of co-education,<br \/>\nI think. Mrs. H- is and she says Dr. H- voted<br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">against<\/span> the new plan. She thinks Sophia is in<br \/>\nfavor of co-education, only, being outside of the<br \/>\ndiscussion, she has little interest in it now.<\/p>\n<p>I wish you would write to her. Do as you<br \/>\nplease about asking her to telegraph. It seems<br \/>\nto me, however, that it is better for us to be even $5.00<br \/>\nshort in expenses than to be lacking in names<br \/>\nthat might be obtained by a little extra<br \/>\nexpense.<\/p>\n<p>Miss Curtis I am the most troubled<br \/>\nabout. I have sent her two letters besides the<br \/>\nletter that went with the protest. I sent a<br \/>\npostal card to her relatives, I asked Miss<br \/>\nNorcross to write to her. If she is in the<\/p>\n<p>\u201cland of the livin\u2019,\u201d I should think she\u2019d receive<br \/>\nsome of them. Will <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">you<\/span> write to her? If it<br \/>\nweren\u2019t so far I should approve of having some<br \/>\none go down to Kennebunk and hunt her up.<\/p>\n<p>Probably she is not there but I should think a<br \/>\nletter would be forwarded to her. I believe I will<br \/>\nwrite to Minnie Mann at Biddeford and ask her to go and<br \/>\nsee her or ascertain her whereabouts. Mrs.<br \/>\nMann might, perhaps, help us also about Miss<br \/>\nLittlefield. She also has had several letters, the last<br \/>\none I sent through Cornie Spear who is now<br \/>\nat Willon. We hear that Miss Bragg is sick<br \/>\nat her home in Lincolnville but no word comes<br \/>\ndirectly from her. What more can we do?<br \/>\nIf I don\u2019t hear from Miss Curtis today I<br \/>\nwill write to Mrs. Mann and send this even-<br \/>\ning. It is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">so strange<\/span> that the girls don\u2019t re-<br \/>\nspond. We called on Miss Meader and Miss<br \/>\nSmith. The latter <del datetime=\"2012-07-18T14:27:07+00:00\">sends <\/del>sent me word when she<br \/>\nreturned the \u201cdocument\u201d that she was thorough-<br \/>\nly in sympathy with our undertaking but thought<br \/>\nit not <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">advisable<\/span> to sign under the circumstances.<br \/>\nShe sent money to help us.<\/p>\n<p>Miss Meader read the protest and \u201cad-<br \/>\nmired\u201d but will not sign. She \u201c<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">never<\/span> be-<\/p>\n<p>lieved in co-education.\u201d The college girls \u201care<br \/>\nwoman\u2019s-rightsy\u2019 and strong-minded and they<br \/>\nwant to vote !\u201d \u201cThey do such dreadful things<br \/>\ntoo!\u201d go to class-suppers with the boys, have Sigma Kappa suppers<br \/>\nin a public dining-room and when they have<br \/>\na chaperone it is a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">woman<\/span>!\u201d Alice asked<br \/>\nher if she thought they would be likely to have<br \/>\na <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">man<\/span> for a chaperone. We got thoroughly<br \/>\ndisgusted there. She said the most exasper-<br \/>\nating things right to our faces. She says<br \/>\nthe \u201ctown girls look down on the college girls\u201d.<br \/>\nBy \u201ctown girls\u201d she means the set composed<br \/>\nof Helen [Plaisted?], Franny [Philbrick] and May El-<br \/>\nden etc. Mrs. Hanson was exceedingly amused<br \/>\nwhen I told her about it. Of course we \u201cstood<br \/>\nup\u201d for the college girls and \u201cwinged words\u201d<br \/>\nflew about in a lively manner. I don\u2019t be-<br \/>\nlieve we&#8217;ll any of us call there again.<\/p>\n<p>Miss Leland writes \u201cIf I am to go through<br \/>\nlife lacking in modesty because of my college<br \/>\ncourse, I am surely in the company of the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">select.<\/span>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Well, that is the way the matter stands<\/p>\n<p>now. If you can do anything to \u201crelieve the situa-<br \/>\ntion\u201d, let me know soon. Please thank your mother<br \/>\nfor her information about Mr. Colby. Prof. Hall<br \/>\nsays he knows of no benefactor to the college who<br \/>\nwas not a friend of co-education. I think Dr.<br \/>\nSmall is [sore] on that point.<\/p>\n<p>If any new names appear, I will inform you<br \/>\nsoon.<\/p>\n<p>Hastily but sincerely, and <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">abnormally<\/span>,<br \/>\nas Bertha says,<br \/>\nMary L. Carver<\/p>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-705\" data-postid=\"705\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-705 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[Written in margin: Don&#8217;t have Sophia telegraph unless she will sign.] Waterville, Sept. 12. \u201990. Dear Miss Coburn, Your note written from Brunswick was not received till last evening at the same time with the one written from your home. 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