{"id":688,"date":"2012-07-17T16:52:15","date_gmt":"2012-07-17T20:52:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/web.colby.edu\/csc-lowcoburn\/?page_id=688"},"modified":"2022-01-31T01:15:40","modified_gmt":"2022-01-31T06:15:40","slug":"transcription-low-to-coburn-871890","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/web.colby.edu\/csc-home\/transcription-low-to-coburn-871890\/","title":{"rendered":"Transcription of letter from Mary Low to Louise Coburn, 8\/7\/1890"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Squirrel Island, Aug. 7. 1890.<\/p>\n<p>My dear Miss Coburn,<\/p>\n<p>Many thanks for your<br \/>\nbeautiful letter. You cannot know how gratifying it<br \/>\nis to me to find that we agree so well in re-<br \/>\ngard to this matter. Indeed, as far as I have<br \/>\nbeen able to ascertain, the Alumnae are a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">unit<\/span><br \/>\nin their feelings and opinions although they may<br \/>\nperhaps, differ as to ways and means.<\/p>\n<p>I intended to go up to Skowhegan to see you<br \/>\nbut Prof. Taylor and sister gave me so pressing<br \/>\nan invitation to come down here that I came<br \/>\nWednesday with my little girl. My husband came<br \/>\ndown for the Sabbath.<\/p>\n<p>I wish I might see you. I think we could<br \/>\narrange something that we could agree on. Today I<br \/>\nhad a call from Alice Sawtelle, Mary Farr, Bessie<\/p>\n<p>2<br \/>\nMortimer and Mary Pray and we met afterwards and<br \/>\ntalked over matters and I read them what I had<br \/>\nwritten. I find we all agree and is as to their suggestion<br \/>\nthat I write to you. Our idea is this. We see<br \/>\nof course that it would be useless to expect to change<br \/>\nanything now. The thing is done. We couldn\u2019t have done<br \/>\nanything to prevent it, because we didn\u2019t know<br \/>\nthat it was to be done. We couldn\u2019t act, of course,<br \/>\ntill the trustees had acted. It looks as if the<br \/>\nresult had been precipitated, sprung on us, as you might<br \/>\nsay in such a way that neither we nor our friends<br \/>\ncould do anything to prevent it.<\/p>\n<p>We can\u2019t <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">change<\/span> anything, but is it <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">right<\/span> and <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">best<\/span><br \/>\nfor us to remain silent? Is it right for us to re-<br \/>\nmain silent and thus really assent to this change?<br \/>\nI understand Pres. Small invites criticism and asks<br \/>\nthe girls to express their opinion about it. His ref-<br \/>\nerences to our modesty or want of it are of the na-<br \/>\nture of an insult. Although he may not have intended<br \/>\nthem to be so, yet we all feel that they are of that nature.<br \/>\nAnd then is it right for us to remain silent and<\/p>\n<p>let the impression go abroad that everybody favors this new plan?<br \/>\nShouldn\u2019t we do what we can to have matters understood<br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">as they are<\/span>? He has given the impression that everybody and<br \/>\neven the girls themselves desire this change when we know<br \/>\nit is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">not so<\/span>. It seems to me that there are many reasons<br \/>\nwhy it is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">right<\/span> for us to speak. Another thing. Is it <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">best<\/span><br \/>\nfor us to be silent? What shall we gain by silence? Will<br \/>\nour influence have any effect-by-and-by if we don\u2019t try<br \/>\nto use it now? Won\u2019t these contemplated changes by \u201csprung<br \/>\non\u201d us again as this has been? And if we seem not to<br \/>\ncare now, will it be expected that we shall care by-and-<br \/>\nby? Shall we be given any chance to use our influence<br \/>\nif we don\u2019t attempt to do it now.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t mean and we don\u2019t any of us mean that<br \/>\nwe will place ourselves <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">in opposition<\/span> to the trustees. But<br \/>\ncan\u2019t we <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">by the right kind<\/span> of a protest place ourselves<br \/>\nin such an attitude that they will see that we love our<\/p>\n<p>college and have her best interests and the interests of her<br \/>\nwomen students at heart? We know we have many friends<br \/>\namong the trustees and we think they <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">all<\/span> respect us and<br \/>\nwould respect our opinions. We are educated women and<br \/>\nare supposed to have an opinion in this matter that so<br \/>\nnearly concerns ourselves. Why shouldn\u2019t we express it?<\/p>\n<p>Now, perhaps, the protest I have written may not be the<br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">right kind<\/span>. It is written from my own point of view.<\/p>\n<p>I find, however, that these girls here and Miss Parmenter<br \/>\nall agree that it is just the thing. Alice Sawtelle says she<br \/>\nwould sign it three times over. I think we could easily get<br \/>\n20 signatures and perhaps more. There are 33 Alumnae<br \/>\nin all and 1\/3 of them live in W-. What we propose to do<br \/>\nis this, to have it printed first without signatures and<br \/>\nsent around for the girls to sign. Then have another<br \/>\nset printed with the names printed underneath by<br \/>\nclasses and send these copies to the trustees and faculty.<br \/>\nI did wish that you might see the Ms. before it should<br \/>\nbe printed so that you might suggest any desirable changes.<br \/>\nI don\u2019t care anything, of course, about being the author<br \/>\nof it, but <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">somebody<\/span> had to start and I should be glad to re-<\/p>\n<p>ceive any suggestions. If it weren\u2019t so long I would<br \/>\nsend the Ms to you. I <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">will<\/span> do so rather than have<br \/>\nyou say that you can\u2019t help us. I thought you might<br \/>\npossibly be coming down here before long so we could<br \/>\narrange a meeting. It would be just the thing if you could<br \/>\nmeet us all here. Can\u2019t it be brought about in some way?<\/p>\n<p>We <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">do<\/span> want you to help us. It seems as if we <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">can\u2019t<\/span><br \/>\nhave it <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">otherwise<\/span>. Your name and influence would have<br \/>\nthe weight of a dozen of the other names. I think and<br \/>\nwe <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">all<\/span> think that we ought to act together. We can\u2019t<br \/>\nafford to split up into factions. Now, can\u2019t you act with<br \/>\nus? We seem to be waiting for you, for I think there<br \/>\nis little doubt about the other girls, the majority of them.<\/p>\n<p>Please let me hear from you as soon as possible in<br \/>\nregard to it. I shall probably be here till the middle of<br \/>\nnext week; how much longer, I cannot say.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Pepper talked the matter over with Mr. Carver<\/p>\n<p>when he was in W-, and he says that the new plan<br \/>\ncannot be carried out without considerable money and so will,<br \/>\nhe thinks be a failure, will work itself clear after a<br \/>\nwhile. What I am afraid of most is that the public will get<br \/>\nthis false impression to such an extent that some-<br \/>\nbody will be giving them money. Pres. Small will<br \/>\nleave no stone unturned to carry out this pet scheme<br \/>\nof his. I think he wants to signalize his administra-<br \/>\ntion by something new and <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">marvelous<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me hear from you very soon.<\/p>\n<p>With love<br \/>\nMary L. Carver.<\/p>\n<p>Excuse pencil for my pen won\u2019t work well.<\/p>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-688\" data-postid=\"688\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-688 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Squirrel Island, Aug. 7. 1890. My dear Miss Coburn, Many thanks for your beautiful letter. You cannot know how gratifying it is to me to find that we agree so well in re- gard to this matter. 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