{"id":3195,"date":"2021-08-29T05:44:00","date_gmt":"2021-08-29T09:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/web.colby.edu\/coronaguidance\/?p=3195"},"modified":"2022-01-04T22:16:34","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T02:16:34","slug":"butler-worship-from-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/web.colby.edu\/coronaguidance\/2021\/08\/29\/butler-worship-from-home\/","title":{"rendered":"Kathryn Butler: When You Can\u2019t Gather: Help and Hope for Those Worshiping from Home"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Over the past few months, churches have rejoiced at the sweetness of returning to worship in person. The turbulence of 2020, with Zoom meetings replacing handholds, has highlighted the importance of in-person worship and fellowship to the Christian walk. In Collin Hansen\u2019s&nbsp;words, \u201cthe hands and feet and ears and eyes need to be assembled for this body to work for the good of all.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And yet not all disciples who worship can gather. As we lift our voices in thanksgiving each Sunday, we mustn\u2019t forget our brothers and sisters whose seats remain empty. Some of them are immunocompromised, and at&nbsp;high risk&nbsp;for COVID-19 despite vaccination. Others suffered from crippling conditions long before the coronavirus became a household word. In all cases, disciples among us find themselves cut off from the body of Christ, just as they\u2019re enduring trials when they most need God\u2019s life-giving Word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Alone, When We Need to Connect<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>My friend Alice knows this lonely road. Her church cautiously reopened just as she began chemotherapy for cancer. While brothers and sisters gathered at long last, her fragile immune system compelled her to self-isolate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThere was this dichotomy of going through something difficult and being at my most vulnerable,\u201d she said. \u201cWhat I needed most was hugs from others, being with others, and having people lay hands on me in prayer, but I couldn\u2019t do that because of my immunity situation, plus COVID.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another friend, Jean, underwent an organ transplant just as COVID became widespread. She\u2019d anticipated a period of isolation after surgery, but not for several months while she awaited a vaccine. Then, after this long period of waiting, she learned of the vaccines\u2019 diminished efficacy in transplant patients, and she felt gutted. \u201cChurch has been vital for me for as long as I can remember,\u201d she said. \u201cMy dad was a pastor. My mom was an organist. If I couldn\u2019t attend church again, I knew I\u2019d become depressed. But what choice did I have?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those grappling with illness often&nbsp;<em>don\u2019t&nbsp;<\/em>have the choice to worship in person. These believers remain a part of the body, God\u2019s adopted children, and as vital as any disciple to the advancement of Christ\u2019s kingdom (Rom. 12:4\u20138;&nbsp;1 Cor. 12:12\u201313).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These believers remain a part of the body, God\u2019s adopted children, and as vital as any disciple to the advancement of Christ\u2019s kingdom.<a href=\"void(0);\">&nbsp;<\/a><a href=\"void(0);\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are three ways the church can help, and three ways those at home can cling to hope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Three Ways the Church Can Help<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Bring Ministry Home<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Visits, phone calls, and video calls from church leadership can offer a cool cup of water to those thirsting for God\u2019s Word. \u201cMy pastor and one of the elders set up a regularly scheduled Zoom call with us to read through some verses and pray together,\u201d Alice said. \u201cThat was a sweet time of fellowship with the leadership of our church, and it encouraged me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This highlights the importance of bringing ministry home to those who cannot gather. Home visits, when possible, may offer light in dark circumstances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Love Your Neighbor<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>All the people with whom I spoke cited fellowship with brothers and sisters as life-giving. My friend Helen, whose caregiving responsibilities for a loved one kept her away from church for over a year, found comfort from phone calls. Jean noted solace from visits with church friends. \u201cIt really helped when people visited and prayed over me,\u201d Jean said. \u201cI loved having kids come by, too, and being able to talk about things other than my disease. It reminded me that my identity was in Christ, not just as \u2018the person waiting for the new organ.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Alice said she saw the Spirit at work through the outpouring of love from church members. \u201cI have been so touched at the breadth of the body of Christ,\u201d she said. \u201cWe do not have to know someone well to send them encouragement and prayer. God is so much bigger than our little circle.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Alice encouraged those who can still attend church to \u201cbe the hands and feet of Christ: encourage, share, listen, pray with and for (even on Zoom), look for ways to provide for tangible needs, reach out.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Offer a Recorded Option<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Livestreamed church&nbsp;can\u2019t replace&nbsp;convening together, but it&nbsp;<em>can&nbsp;<\/em>nourish those who can\u2019t attend. Helen called the online services during her difficult period a \u201clifeline.\u201d Alice said, \u201cAs is true in most difficult times, just about every sermon or song spoke to me more poignantly. . . . If I had skipped church altogether, I know I would have missed vital encouragement for my soul during that time.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As many churches move away from livestreaming, these women\u2019s stories suggest a role for digital recordings of services, perhaps selectively distributed to those confined to home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Three Ways to Cling to Hope<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Stay in the Word<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Scripture is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path (Ps. 119:105) In times when we\u2019re disconnected from the body, study of God\u2019s Word can buoy us through the storm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cDuring this period, I was able to see much more from Scripture than I ever have,\u201d Helen said. \u201cIt gave me time to sit and think, and not talk to anybody else but the Lord.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In times when we\u2019re disconnected from the body, study of God\u2019s Word can buoy us through the storm.<a href=\"void(0);\">&nbsp;<\/a><a href=\"void(0);\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Alice said, \u201cI think about my isolation in my own home, and wonder if this was a forced rest for me\u2014\u2018He made me lie down\u2019\u2014not because I had the inability to choose rest, but I would not have particularly gone about it in the same way.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During this period of separation, while you pine for fellowship, consider if the Lord is calling you into a period of stillness (Ps. 46:10), during which you can lean into deep study of his Word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Pray Without Ceasing<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>God hears our prayers, and calls us to place our concerns at his feet (Phil. 4:6). When illness isolates us, our prayers can become all the more fervent\u2014and can anchor us in hope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAll I felt I could do in my faith walk (and maybe all God was asking of me?) was to stay faithful, stay in the Word, and keep praying,\u201d Alice said. \u201cEven if I couldn\u2019t answer the whys and hows, even if I did not have eloquent words in my prayers and was just crying out to him for&nbsp;<em>help<\/em>, he is tender and loving and did not turn me away when my faith felt weak.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Our Savior can sympathize with our weaknesses (Heb. 4:15). And he hears our prayers, no matter the circumstances (1 John 5:14).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Remember Who You Are<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When illness tears us from the disciplines and fellowship we hold dear, we can lose sight of who we are. Remember that when no one sees you in church,&nbsp;<em>God sees you<\/em>. Your worth doesn\u2019t derive from your self-reliance, talents, health, or independence. Rather, your worth springs solely, wholly, beautifully, and immutably from Jesus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your true and foremost identity has nothing to do with your ability to attend church, and everything to do with the truth that you are an&nbsp;<em>image-bearer of God&nbsp;<\/em>(Gen. 1:26),&nbsp;<em>loved by God&nbsp;<\/em>(John 3:16), and&nbsp;<em>made new through Christ&nbsp;<\/em>(Rev. 21:5). And&nbsp;<em>nothing<\/em>\u2014not a disability, not an illness, not a virus that has rampaged across the world\u2014can tear you from God\u2019s love for you in Christ (Rom. 8:38\u201339).<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thegospelcoalition.org\/profile\/kathryn-butler\/\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kathryn Butler&nbsp;<\/strong>(MD, Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons) is a trauma surgeon turned writer and homeschooling mom. She explores medical issues through a Christian lens in her books&nbsp;<em>Between Life and Death&nbsp;<\/em>(Crossway, 2019) and&nbsp;<em>Glimmers of Grace<\/em>&nbsp;(Crossway, 2021), and is also the author of&nbsp;<em>The Dream Keeper Saga&nbsp;<\/em>(Crossway 2022), a kids\u2019 fantasy series with Christian themes. She lives in Massachusetts and blogs at&nbsp;<em>Oceans Rise<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[published Aug. 29, 2021]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Over the past few months, churches have rejoiced at the sweetness of returning to worship in person. The turbulence of 2020, with Zoom meetings replacing handholds, has highlighted the importance of in-person worship and fellowship to the Christian walk. 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